My Wife is Funny and Ecumenism

Yesterday I had to opportunity to participate in an ecumenical foot washing and and service oriented event at the Episcopal Center in Ocean beach. All different types of denominations were represented and eager to serve those in need.  300 people signed up to receive new shoes, meals, haircuts, foot washing, prayer, communion, vet care (for their animals), medical care, help acquiring identification, and other services.  I helped with communion.  Bishop Mathes, the Episcopal Bishop was there, and since my wife Enrique is Episcopalian, I thought it would be funny to take a picture with him and send it to her.  The message said, “Hanging with your Bishop.” 

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Well, this morning, Enrique went to serve meals to those in need at TACO in Downtown San Diego.  TACO is housed at 1st Lutheran Church.  I was not able to be there this morning.  Well, funny thing is I received this picture with a text message this morning, “Hanging with your Bishop!”  

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This is Bishop Holmerud from the Sierra Pacific Synod in Northern California, which is the Synod I was assigned to in October.  I couldn’t stop laughing.  My wife is very funny. 

 

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My Life Changed Right There…

On August 17, 2001 my life changed forever. The girl that I had grown close to was leaving for her senior year of college and I needed to tell her that I had feelings for her. The night started off by eating at Cafe Coyote in Old Town followed by a CCT production of Camelot.  Neither of those places did if feel right to tell her how I felt.  After Camelot we went to the Living Room in Point Loma, didn’t do it there either.  When they closed at 12am I suggested that we go to sunset cliffs and watch the waves.  She agreed, she knew what was coming.  After being at the cliffs for four hours I worked up the nerves to tell her how I felt.  She waited patiently. And after I proclaimed my feelings  I asked, “Can we be more than friends?”  She said, “Yes! can we go home now?”

That was 11 years ago.  Little did I know that today my office would overlook the exact spot that my life changed forever.

I sometimes get up from my chair and look out that window at the spot and think about how lucky I am to have such a great woman in my life.  Happy Valentine’s day Enrique.  I love you.

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Sermon

Here is a sermon I gave at Lutheran Church in the Foothills in La Canada on Pentecost last year.

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Quote

St. Dimitrii of Rostov, a 17th century Russian Bishop.

“Come, my Light, and illumine my darkness.
Come, my Life, and revive me from death.
Come, my Physician, and heal my wounds.
Come, Flame of divine love, and burn up the thorns of my sins, kindling my heart with thy flame of love.
Come, my King, sit upon the throne of my heart and reign there. For thou alone art my King and my Lord.”

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Ecumenical Lunches

Once a month, pastors from the Point Loma/Ocean Beach area gather together for lunch and fellowship.  No agenda is needed, we just enjoy each other’s company.  All pastors are welcome. If some do not come, it’s not because they weren’t invited.  The denominations represented today were: Lutheran, Episcopalian, Nazarene, Methodist, Catholic (both nuns and a priest), Presbyterian, Baptist, and non-denominational.  We shared a nice lunch at the Catholic church, we also rotate who hosts.

I am really impressed by how this group operates.  We look for things to do together for the sake of Ocean Beach.  When I first arrived in 2010 I was involved in helping with helping create a space for people to talk about issues surrounding homelessness. Remember the sticker that garnered national headlines?

The clergy had a series of forums that included residents, business owners, and the homeless.  We were hoping to calm the powder keg that was about to go off from these stickers.  I lead a group of folks that had all three of these groups talking in a civil way about their concerns for Ocean Beach. It was an amazing experience. I saw people start to realize that the people sitting across from them where actually people, not “the other.” By God’s grace nothing bad happened to the homeless or businesses.

We have also found ways of proclaiming God’s Word together.  On Good Friday we had an ecumenical faith walk.  We started at the Catholic church, read part of the passion narrative, and then processed to the next church and continued the narrative. In total we visited 5 churches.  There were 200 people in attendance representing most of the denomination in Ocean Beach. We held up traffic because the procession was so long!

Here is a picture from the service.

We are planning on holding an ecumenical foot washing for Maundy Thursday.

Most of all, I am impressed about how we do not let our theological differences impede our fellowship.  We could easily start a fight over an number of issues, but we don’t, we respect each others space and traditions.  That’s the beautiful nature of this group, we stay true to our own theological heritage, respect theirs, and see Christ working amongst our respective ministries.  I am honored to have been part of these lunches.  I am honored to have served in Ocean Beach with such a great group of clergy.  I hope that wherever God calls me there will be a group willing to share the city and proclaim Christ and him crucified.

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Beer: Bitterness and Barf

Tonight, Enrique and I took a trip to BJ’s, which is a chain brewhouse restaurant.  This restaurant has some of their own beers and a good gluten free menu. Enrique has been gluten free since about the time we got married. They have gluten free pizza, beer, and now pizookies.  We just learned about the pizookie.

I order their light beer sampler which included their Lightswitch Lager, Blonde, Hefeweizen, and Piranha Pale Ale.

Something sad happened as soon as I received my beer, Sebastian threw up. Well, I just received the beer and we had ordered our food so we really couldn’t just leave at that point. Sebastian said he was feeling better so I just ran to target and purchased him a new clothes. Crises averted. Thank God the target was across the parking lot.

Enrique had a gluten free pizza and I had a normal one. Isaac, our 1 year old, ate both of our pizzas indiscriminately.

Since I have been trying to be more discerning about beers I drink I am definitely disappointed with their light selection of beer.  The Lightswitch Lager tasted like alcoholic soda water.  That’s what you get when it tagline contains the calories.  The Blonde was a little better, but I’ve also had better blondes, no pun intended. In my mind the Hefeweizen and Pale Ale where the better beers.  Hefeweizens are always fruity and and the Pale Ale had a good taste that didn’t make me throw my head back.  The overall experience left me feeling a little bitter.  That’s what I get for going to a chain brewhouse and restaurant.

I am looking forward to getting some better beers down my gullet. What do you think about BJ’s Beers?

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Beer: Taking Inventory

I have reasonable New Year resolutions. This year there are three.  One, Learn more about beer. Two, not buy any books with my own money.  Three, lose weight. I realize one and three have potential conflict.

My plan of attack in learning about beer will be to sample widely, read, and talk with others.  I would like to be able to intelligently talk about beer, not necessarily become a beer sommelier. A good friend, Jeremy Fuerst recommended that I go through this Beer Judge Certification Program. Looking at how they organize styles of beer will help me learn to describe styles and know what to expect.

In starting this resolution I am not a blank slate. I drink beer. So, here is a list of beers I like.

Blue Moon

Corono, Pacifico, Dos Equis, Modelo

Fat Tire

Ballist Point Pale Ale

Almost any Hefeweizen

Boddingtons

Stella Artois

Samuel Adams Boston Lager

It seems to me that I am attracted to lighter beers.

How do you think I should handle this endeavor?  What can you tell me about the beers that I am attracted to?

 

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